• CEMAFAM: Building marriages, homes, and relationships in the likeness of God

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  • It does not matter when, how and who you got married just put Jesus at the centre and He will turn every situation around and make it His masterpiece

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The vision of this ministry was birth on the 2nd of June 2010 after one month of Marriage. While praying, meditating and thanking God for one month of marriage, the lord ministered to us the keys of what it takes to experience a marriage after the likeness of God. Even though God gave us this vision, it took seven years for us to be convinced that God was actually set to use us as couple to build Christ-centred marriages and homes. Within the seven years, we have utilised those divine keys as a couple on different situations and can evident that indeed God has called us to reach out to world and raise God kind of marriages and homes.


Building marriages, homes and relationship in the likeness of God (Isaiah 42 vs 6).

“It does not matter when, how and who you got married just put Jesus at the centre and He will turn every situation around and make it His masterpiece”

Declaring “Enough is enough” to the troubles satan and its cohorts are inflicting on our marriages, homes, and relationship

Our Beliefs

God instituted marriage it originates from Him (Gen 2:21)

Marriage is a covenant(UNION) between God, a male and a female(Gen1:27)

The marriage manual is the Word of God (2Tim 3:16-17)

Marriage is a beautiful institution (1Tim 4:4, Gen 1:31)

There is no marriage that is irreparable (Jer32:27)


We are inviting you to Our Annual 2 Days Marriage & Relationship Retreat; theme: The Power of Agreement. Come and Experience the presence of God in this year glorious event and we promise, your life will never remain the same again in Jesus Name.



Romance in Marriage & Relationships Part 1

Barriers of Conflicts Management in Marriage & Relationships

Conflicts Management in Marriage & Relationships


The most difficult area in any relationship and yet the most important is spiritual intimacy. This is because our relationship with God affects everything else we do.

It is true everyone must take personal responsibility with their walk with God, however as couples, we share the walk. In so doing we encourage each other and build intimacy.

Spiritual intimacy affects all other aspects of marriage/ relationship (emotional , intellectual &physical) just like our relationship with God affects all other aspects of our lives.

It is Important to note that the closer a husband/wife is to God, the more they grow closer/Intimate with their spouse in every other aspect.

1Cor 3:11 No one can lay any foundation other than the one we already have-Jesus Christ.


As a wife / husband your character should foster commitment, loyalty & trust in your union. Action what you vowed to your spouse. #CEMAFAM

Bringing sensitive issues at the wrong time, result to unnecessary outburst of emotions between couples. Wait for the right time. #CEMAFAM

Continuous affirmation of love and commitment through words and actions to your spouse will foster transparency in your union. #CEMAFAM


A house is built but a home is made. A house can be given as a gift without no input from you. A home is only made by you and your spouse and subsequently your children / families. God is the architect . We all know the role of an architect. He is the master planner, Whatever the labourers are putting up, it must be in line with the architect draws. Architect don’t compromise their concept or plan. Jeremiah 1 vs 5. Therefore no matter how we go about our union or relationship. Let us be sure it is in line with God’s concept for that particular union. Each couples have different capacity and capability which we are all aware of therefore you cannot copy or imitate your colleagues , friends or even family. Each Union is designed to be progressive and full of joy.


The intension of God is for marriages and relationship to flourish and continually move forward. That is why every creation is made or design – for example the eyes, nose, feet etc to operate in a forward manner. Therefore, naturally every union or relationship should be flourishing i.e moving forward. We have all being given that power or all being empowered on equal measure to flourish. The way we now use the power is what differs or our understanding of the level of power or empowerment that resides in us to accomplish all that we desire in our marriage and relationship.


Agreement is the switch for any light to come on in a home or relationship. And when it is on darkness disappears. Analogy of Agreement compares to the black and red cable that requires connection to generate power. Without the two coming together they are powerless, the moment they connect they can burn or electrocute anything.. The power of agreement is one of the most important themes we find in the bible. This is particularly true when it comes to marriage. Words like “agreement”, “unity”, “oneness”, “being one” and “covenant”, are meant to convey powerful word pictures to encourage us to choose this blessed way of alignment for ourselves. Jesus himself through the entirety of John 17 fervently prays that oneness would be a reality in the lives of all that would follow after him.